What is “Attractive” in men and women…

The BIGGEST mistake most people make in life is to assume that everyone else views the world exactly like they do. In relationships it is also very common for people to do this…

What ladies look for in a man is slightly different than what a man looks for in a woman. I know if you are a lady you probably just rolled your eyes and thought “Thanks for the insight genius” or “DUH!”…. but ladies I have to warn you… its not what you think…

According to the best selling book Why Men Don’t Have A Clue and Women Always Need More Shoes By Barbara and Allan Pease. Here is what men and women are looking for…

MEN

On First Sight

1. Good Looks

2. Shapely Body

3. Breasts

4. Butt

In A Long Term Partner

1. Personality

2. Good Looks

3. Brains

4. Humor

WOMEN

On First Sight & In A Long-term Partner

1. Personality

2. Humor

3. Sensitivity

4. Brains

5. Good Body

One thing to notice is that men have 2 lists will women only have 1.

Most men do not realize that a woman only has one list… she is looking for a person that is both attractive on first sight and then checks him out to make sure that he is a man who will be able to go the distance in a long term relationship before moving forward in the relationship (*I will explain this below).

Many women do not realize that while they only have one list for their potential partner… most men have two. They have a list of who they would be willing to date and an entire separate list for a woman that they believe would make a potential long term partner.

Another very important topic you may also want to read up on is “Masculine and Feminine” energy. It is another key component for a relationship to have that natural spark to it and also the way to get the spark back if it has seemed to fade over time…