Here is a fun video that reviews the “5 Stupid Questions Women Ask Men”.
Do you find yourself asking your man these questions?
After watching this video do you swear to never ask these questions?
The problem is, most of these questions are playing games (whether intentional or not) with men and completely setting them up for failure rather than success in your relationship. These are 5 stupid questions that both single and married woman ask and we need to stop this immediately if we want to really be happy with your man in your relationship, or happy while looking for the love.
Below are a summary of the silly questions women ask men.
Silly question #1 women ask men:
After getting ready for the day or night: Do you notice anything different?
Women when you do this is a setup!!!! It’s just wrong. This is like your man taking you into the garage, opening up the car and asking “Do you notice anything different?” We need to immediately stop doing this because this not only makes them feel bad when they don’t notice what you clearly want them to notice, but it also makes you incredibly upset because he can’t figure out you changed your hair color from chocolate brown to almond brown. He’s not a woman, he doesn’t notice things like that.
Want to be happier in your relationship? Know that men, will say anything in hopes to not get them into trouble. They’ll even have women lead them to the right answer, so you don’t get mad at them. So guide them to the answer, like so “Doesn’t this dress make my butt look awesome?!” “I pick up this new dress, doesn’t it look great on me?!” “Honey, I colored my hair today, isn’t it beautiful!?” See these are VERY helpful clues to a man because he knows exactly what he should be focused on and the answer you are hoping to hear. Let me him confirm the answer you are looking for and you’ll never be let down again because he could solve your mystery questions.
Silly Question #2 Women ask Men:
Getting ready to go out for the night. Does this make me look fat or big?
Men, do not fall for this!!! Women you have a scale, get on it. If the number is high, the butt is big. It’s that easy. If you’re asking it’s because you want the truth, but you can’t handle the truth. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be trying to squeeze into a dress to one size too small, you’d be hitting the gym! Don’t set your man up for failure by asking him if a dress, shirt or pants make you look fat, because you know very well if he so much as hesitates to answer your questions, you’re going to get incredibly upset. And if he lies to you, you’re upset. So either way, he loses. Play nice.
Silly Question #3 Women ask Men:
While watching his favorite team make a big play. What are you thinking about?
It’s about timing ladies, timing. If he’s glued to the TV, it’s because he’s thinking nothing other than what’s happening on TV. There isn’t room for him to think about anything else. I’m not being mean, I’m being honest. Men are single focused creatures. They can only do and think about one thing at a time. That’s it. Men, unlike woman, do not think or do a gazillion things at a time. So understand, if they are in the middle of something that has ALL their undivided attention, it’s probably not a good time to ask some random, out of the blue, completely unrelated question. Wait till he’s transitioned from the game, especially during a big play!, and is not looking for the next thing to do. Oh, and if you’re hoping or looking for some complex idea or thought on your relationship and how it’s going etc, etc. Don’t get your hopes up, men simply don’t overanalyze their feelings like women do.
Silly Question #4 Women ask Men:
Out for a walk. Do you think that woman is prettier than me?
Woman, of course she’s prettier than you, you picked her out. If you want reassurance as to how beautiful you are, pick out someone who is less attractive. Don’t make his have to lie to you, does that really make you feel better? Let’s face it, there are other beautiful woman out there, BUT he choose YOU for a reason. Drawing his attention to other beautiful women, isn’t doing you or your relationship any good.
Men, here’s the correct answer to this setup question: What woman? (She’ll smile and pull you closer. Go high five yourself!)
Silly Question #5 Women ask Men:
After he comes home from a horrible day at work. What’s wrong? What about my day? We don’t talk or communicate. Where do you see our relationship going in 10 years? You just walk away? You really don’t care do you… Let me let you in on a little relationship secret, whether dating or married, men need time to transition. The last thing they want the second they get home from the office, and especially a crazy day at work, is for you to come at them with a ton of questions sprinkled with guilt trip. Let them unwind, take a second to breathe, and do what they need to do to prepare for giving their love to you for the rest of the day. By you letting him unwind, I assure you he will then open up and love on you all night long. Just as you hoped!
For a great laugh and amazing insight, watch this video where a man and woman ask out 5 stupid questions women ask men:
Do you ask these questions?
Are they useful? Have you ever received a response that you enjoyed or that helped you move towards what you wanted
to experience more of in your relationship?
Here’s to a happier and healthy love life!