We launched our new Help Me Find Love Podcast today! Yay! You can find it on SoundCloud, iTunes, or Stitcher.
In today’s podcast we talk about the two different lists that men and women sort each other by. Well, that is the TWO lists that men have and ONE list women have.
Why do men sort women?
Because some women are marriage material and others… are not. If you are found on the “not-wife material” list, you’re probably date worthy, but don’t get your hopes up on it going much farther than dates or random hookups.
Why do women only have one list?
Though it is not a rule across the board, many women are looking for long term relationships that are “going some where”, not just short term flings who may be “wasting” their prime years. Most woman want to find the one, marry, and start a family. In a nutshell, woman don’t just date, they are very relationship focused. So for men, it’s important to know if you’re dating her, she’s likely going to want to see this “relationship” go somewhere. As a guy, if you don’t see this going anywhere, it’s better to cut off dates, hooking up, etc before you lead her on to think otherwise.
Tune in and let us know what your take is, do you have 1 list, 2 lists, or more?
Which list do you fall into?
Which do the people you date typically fall into?
If you’re married, how did you know which list they matched up with?
Let us know in the comments below, we’d love to hear from you!
Amanda + Jairek
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