Ego Speak: The little smack talking, full of doubt, cynical, and quite cowardly voice that certainly does not bring out the best of us. It’s a voice in our heads that typically haunts us and our relationships. When it comes to dating and relationships, that voice makes us question and doubt…a lot. The result: we are not fully present. Instead,… View Post
Does my boyfriend mean what he says? Yes, he does. But, (there’s a huge but…) have you ever heard this conversation: “He gave me a toothbrush to keep at his house” “He gave you a toothbrush? You have a toothbrush at his house?! Omigosh that definitely means he likes you. This is totally getting serious!!!” Check it out: Finding Love… View Post
Let’s face it, we’ve all probably dated someone that we look back now and think “Great person, but what was I thinking? That relationship was going nowhere…” Many people get into relationships for very simple and surface reasons. Whether it’s proximity that started that relationship or simply compatibility, these are components for a short term relationship. A relationship based… View Post
On average, I set the fire alarm off twice a month. This morning was no exception. In fact, it probably upped my average. As Jairek quickly ran to the kitchen making sure there wasn’t actually a fire this time, I put my mascara away and quickly, yet nonchalantly, walked over to the kitchen. I was less worried that there might… View Post
Two words that can destroy your relationship & dating life Always and Never. If you remembered one thing from today, I hope it’s that. Remember that ‘always’ and ‘never’ (in a negative frame of reference) can severely damage your relationship. So stop, just stop using those words. A couple days I discussed a scenario and broke down a few… View Post