While this is not a review of the movie Fifty Shades of Grey. The goal of this post is to spotlight a couple major lessons that provide a lot of relationship advice & dating tips, which are often overlooked or misunderstood.
Both these lessons can greatly minimize confusion frustration and heartache. This relationship advice will help men and women better understand each other for years to come through dating and marriage.
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So for a second, let’s forget about judging the characters and claims of domestic violence in the movie fifty shades of grey, what we really need to focus in on are the cause and effect of a great orgasm (for women specifically) as well as how fantasies have completely different meanings for men and women.
If you haven’t seen the movie, I’m not spoiling anything for you, nor do you need to go watch it to understand the points I make here. In fact, if you’ve ever been in a relationship or even dated there’s a good chance you may have experienced one or both of these experiences.
Lesson 1: Let’s talk about orgasms.
In the movie Fifty Shades of Grey, Anastasia Steele not only loses her virginity to Christian Grey, but has (seemingly believable) orgasms. So what’s the problem? Well obviously, losing your virginity to someone is a significant in and of itself. However, the real lesson is in the multiple orgasms that follow.
You see with each orgasm the hormone oxytocin, also referred to as the bonding hormone, is released creating thus a bond between the women and the person who created that orgasm.
This effect lasts far longer for women than men simply because of their levels of testosterone. So unlike males, who also experience the same effect for only 2hrs-2days, women will experience a “bonding” feeling for up to 2 weeks! Big difference!
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In fact, with each additional the orgasm the bond feels stronger. Thus a woman will start to feel very connected and attached to the other person, thus explains her “falling in love” despite how the relationship lacked a deep and meaningful connection.
Is this real love? Who are we to judge. Is it a hormone induced one? Science points to yes.
Moral of the story: Attention Men: the more orgasms you give a woman the more likely she is to fall for you and faster. So if you’re not looking for a serious relationship, keep your penis in your pants because her biological hormones might make her think otherwise.
In part two of this blog we will talk about how fantasies are greatly different between men and women and how that can cause massive confusion and heartbreak in many cases.
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Amanda
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