When Your Relationship Becomes Routine

Today is about mixing it up!

Can you think of anything you used to do that was exciting, fun, passionate or really created an great spark in your relationship?

What was it?

Often times when we fall too deep into routines especially in our relationships the action doesn’t have the same reaction. In fact, it loses it becomes “boring” or loses its mystery (something we all love).

So my challenge to you today is to mix things up!

Whenever you’re falling too deep into a routine take a moment and think about how and why that certain action created a certain feeling or response from your partner and figure out (I mean get really creative!) on how to take it up a notch or mix things up!

Bonus points if you’re able to come up with a plan of action, a new strategy, before the old one becomes too old. That way, you can always use it again!

Here are a few things to think about and plan out to mix things up and keep the passion alive:

• Plan something extra special for your lover just because.
• Do or try something unique, out of the ordinary, to make it memorable.
• Look for ways to add more sensory, adventure and fun.

Now go mix things up with your lover!